The Many Dimensions of Wellness
Episode Description
In today's episode of Mind Your Mind, your host Tim Unsinn talks with Dr. Wayne Martinsen. Dr. Martinsen, Medical Director and Psychiatrist at Dakota Family Services, defines wellness as more than just the absence of disease, but as a state of well-being. In this episode he will share current wellness research, questions to ask to determine your own well-being, and steps you can take to achieve and maintain wellness.What to Expect
- Learn to think about wellness as more than just the absence of disease.
- Discover surprising ways to improve your emotional well-being.
- Understand the importance of exercise, sleep, and social connectedness.
Resources: Learn More
Greater Good Science Center (University of California Berkeley)
Things to Think About
- Where do you find meaning and purpose in life?
- How can you structure your life to contain those things that bring meaning?
- Can you connect (in person, via text, or through video chat) with two people every day?
- What can you do to improve your sleep?
About the Hosts
Dr. Martinsen enjoys working with a wide range of ages and diagnoses. His practice is largely focused on complex clients with multiple health challenges. He diagnoses psychiatric and behavioral health conditions, makes recommendations for treatment, and prescribes/manages medications for clients of all ages. Much of his work focuses on maximizing health, treating illness, and promoting healthy longevity through lifestyle medicine.
Transcript
The Many Dimensions of Wellness
Featuring Dr. Wayne Martinsen, Psychiatrist, Dakota Family Services
Tim Unsinn:
Welcome to Mind Your Mind, a podcast presented by Dakota Family Services, an outpatient behavioral health clinic located in Minot, Bismarck, and Fargo, North Dakota. In this podcast, I will talk with our experts about understanding and nurturing our mental health and wellness. I'm your host, Tim Unsinn. Join me each episode as we explore the intricacies of our minds, decrease the stigma of mental illness, learn practical tips for managing our mental health and well-being, and recognize when it's time to ask for help. Join me now to Mind Your Mind. Welcome to this episode of Mind Your Mind.
Tim Unsinn:
I'll be talking with Dr. Wayne Martinsen. Dr. Martinsen is the medical director and psychiatrist in Fargo and Minot. Dr. Martinsen diagnoses psychiatric and behavioral health conditions, makes treatment recommendations, and provides medication management for clients of all ages, Dr. Martinsen, this is just a great opportunity to spend some time with you and to learn. Today's topic is wellness. But before we get into today's topic, a question I ask all of our guests, why do you do what you do?
Dr. Wayne Martinsen:
Actually, I never intended to spend my career in mental health. I was in college and got a job working at a group home in Minnesota, which paid the bills for me. I loved working at the group home, loved the adolescents got a degree in social work, got fascinated by psychotherapy, got a master's in social work, and then became fascinated with psychiatry and went back to medical school.
Dr. Wayne Martinsen:
And so it was sort of the allure of the experience of working with people, and both sort of an enjoyment of people just because I like spending time with other human beings. The other piece is that I love the complexity of personality and mental health and trying to come up with solutions that match the person and the problem that's in front of me.
Tim Unsinn:
Oh, great answer. So now we'll jump right into wellness. Today's topic is wellness with wellness. I think of so many ways it's described today. How would you define wellness?
Dr. Wayne Martinsen:
When I talk about wellness one of the things that I try to do is to harken back to the World Health Organization statement from 1948, where they defined wellness is more than just the absence of disease, but a state of well-being, a set of connections, the opportunity for learning having meaningful work. And so that was the original definition. And the concept is relevant in, in current medicine and psychiatry, because we tend to think of either disease or absence of disease and wellness really takes the concept beyond just the absence of disease and looks at how connected are you, how invigorating is your life, do you feel happy day to day? And by happiness, we're not just looking at whether or not there's a giddy joyfulness, but really whether life has meaning connection, purpose, and that you feel a sense of well-being. And a part of it has been looked at at least in our culture as if you don't have an illness, you have these other things, and it gets clear that in the research, that's not really true. And it also gets clear that there's a lot that can be done to create wellness if a person does not have it.
Tim Unsinn:
So as we look at the changing of wellness, has there been a change in wellness in our country over the last 20 years?
Dr. Wayne Martinsen:
There really has. In the last 20 years in America, we've experienced what are called the deaths of despair. And when you look at that, it includes a 35% increase in deaths by suicide from 2000 to 2019. It includes a dramatic increase in drug addiction. It includes a lot of people who have simply dropped out of the workforce because of disillusionment. There's so much positive from our modern culture, but there are also pockets of people that are being left out of that experience. And for whom modern life is lonely and despairing and empty, and it lacks the purpose and connection that would keep them going in difficult times.
Tim Unsinn:
So how much of our well-being is within our control?
Dr. Wayne Martinsen:
Well, earlier estimates suggested that that 50% of our happiness was genetically determined. Repeated research has indicated that only 10% of our happiness is controlled by our situation--what's happening in our life at this time. And 40% is controlled by how we live our lives. One of the things that I've done recently is I've been taking this course from university of California, Berkeley, who has a free course online. It's a semester course looking at happiness and how to create an increased level of happiness in your life. And they're saying that really, they see those old numbers as wrong. They feel like there's greater than 50% of how we live that creates our day-to-day well-being.
Tim Unsinn:
Our guest on Mind your Mind is Dr. Wayne Martinsen. Today we are talking about wellness. And then the next question that I have for you, I think about, you know, how can someone increase their wellbeing? And just, there are so many opportunities to do that in so many ways and opportunities for us all to really increase our wellbeing.
Dr. Wayne Martinsen:
There's a lot of research since about 1995, there was a Dr. Martin Seligman who he wasn't the first person to come up with this concept, but he did a lot of research and he headed up the American psychological association and is regarded by a lot of people as the father of positive psychology. So there's, there's a lot of data. There's a lot of research that looks at what goes into well-being. And so I can just hit on some of those Tim, the ones that are the most researched and they include exercise. And usually when we think of exercise, we're thinking about, am I toned? Do I have the body of a 20, 30 year old?
Dr. Wayne Martinsen:
Do I look good in a bathing suit is sort of the issue culturally, but that's not relevant for well-being. What's relevant for well-being for feeling rested, for feeling energized for treating depression and anxiety is exercise of about 30 minutes a day, four to five days per week. Now that exercise doesn't have to be all at one setting. The research is pretty clear that if you get five minutes of exercise, six times in a day, that counts. If you get a half hour of exercise that counts. And the type of exercise that is clearly the best in the research is whatever exercise that you're willing to keep doing. So if you dance intensely enough so that it causes you to have a slightly difficult time talking, carrying on a conversation, that counts. If you jog that counts. If you take a brisk walk or swim or any activity sports activities.
Dr. Wayne Martinsen:
So it doesn't have to be one particular activity. Weightlifting used to be seen as less than in terms of mental well-being, but it is not. The recent research indicates that again, if you're lifting weights to the point that it's slightly difficult to talk, to carry on a conversation for 30 minutes in a day, that's exercise. That counts. And the exercise can be varied. So one day you could go dancing the next day. You could go for a brisk walk with your dog and other day you could lift weights. Another day you could play basketball with a friend. And so exercise period matters in terms of mood, in terms of anxiety, in terms of attention and concentration and sleep. The second thing that shows up very consistently is mindfulness. Thirty, forty years ago when I first had an interest in medication, you had to read a book and then hope that what you're doing matched up with what you're reading.
Dr. Wayne Martinsen:
And today it's very different. There are a lot of there are some online approaches to medication that are free. There are other low-cost guided meditations, like with Headspace or calm, there are others that really help sort of focus the attention on the self or on the breath or on a loving emotion. And again, the dosage of that is about 20 minutes a day, four to five days per week. There's a movement beyond that, to just find ways to center yourself in the day, to sort of be mindful of where you're at, what you're feeling, what your relationships are, what your purpose is. That's harder to define, and it's harder to set parameters around. So when people talk to me about mindfulness unless they're experienced in that approach, I really like to talk to them about using one of those online apps that really walks them through meditation.
Dr. Wayne Martinsen:
The next thing that's important is sleep. We tend to take sleep for granted. And one of the things that's happened in our culture is that people are getting less and less sleep as technology advances. And a part of that is work. But a big part of it is our screen time. You know, not just television, but interactive games, binge-watching series is a big deal. And what happens is not only does the screen entertain us in the moment, making it hard for people to want to go to bed, but the bluish light that comes off of screens makes it really hard for the brain to be asleep and to fall asleep. The recommendations are that screens go off, or at the very least are switched to a blue filter an hour and a half before bed time. And that overall use of screens is decreased, that we monitor caffeine use before bedtime, we don't exercise real close to bedtime, and that we try to engage,uin quieter activities, say reading a book, not the news, which a lot of people find upsetting, but a book or something informational. That sleep should be protected. That we really should leave eight hours, seven or eight hours of time every night for sleep.
Dr. Wayne Martinsen:
The next thing is social connectedness. People who are lonely not only have higher rates of depression and anxiety, they die at a younger age, there are cardiac implications of loneliness. There are also significant increases in dementia rates for people who are lonely. And again, what seems to happen is people describe themselves as more lonely now than they did 20 years ago. And it's hard to know how much of it is related to lifestyle and to culture, but people get entertained by their video games, by the series they're binge watching, and there's less purposeful connection.
Dr. Wayne Martinsen:
So when you look at programs like Rakesh and Saundra Jain's Hero Wellness program, they're really looking at how do you protect connectedness? How do you stay in touch with people? And one of their prescriptions is that you call two people, either have conversations face-to-face, or call two people who are just friends every day. And, you know, we've gotten to the point where it seems almost rude in this day and age to call somebody up on the telephone denovo, right? It's, it's intrusive. But it's pretty easy to just text somebody and say, you know, I've been thinking about you. It's been a long time since we talked and I miss you, would it be okay if we called, if I called and I've never had anybody when I've done that say, no, we can't do that. And even better approach in my mind that has really deepened the experience for me in the middle of this COVID pandemic has been the use of zoom or other tele -chat formats.
Dr. Wayne Martinsen:
There are probably easily a dozen of them that are free. The same thing occurs. You know, you can take your laptop outside, follow up or connect with somebody, a friend you haven't seen, but it allows us to connect over distances. And another part of what's happened to our culture is that we've become much more mobile. People in America move to follow a job. Now, maybe that's the right thing to do for that family, but it really interrupts relationships, friendships, family connection, and all of those things matter. Another part of the relationship piece that clearly matters in the research is holding a grudge or having bitterness. Bad things happen to people in life, sometimes really horrible things. And if we hang onto that bitterness or that resentment, that has cardiac implications, again. It has implications for depression and anxiety.
Dr. Wayne Martinsen:
And again, it has implications for increased rates of dementia as we get older. And again and again in the literature, what you find is whatever promotes cardiac health promotes brain health, whatever promotes brain health seems to promote cardiac health. The other things that we know improve well-being are things like gratefulness. There's a very simple, there's a very simple intervention of being grateful for three things, talking with a partner or writing down three things that you're grateful for at the end of each day, that occurred in that day. It's an extremely simple intervention. And yet the level of happiness increases significantly when people do that. And there's two parts to that. One is that it makes us aware of people that we care about that made our life better, right? Which increases our well-being. But over time it increases our focus. We're looking for in the world around us in our day-to-day experience, we're looking for the people or we're more aware of the people who have made our lives better.
Dr. Wayne Martinsen:
And that can be that can be a spouse, or it can be a family member. It can be a coworker. It can be somebody that we've served. Another piece that is vital for well-being is a sense of meaning or a sense of purpose. And we find that in different places, Tim. So some people will find it in their spirituality and their relationship with God. Some people will find it within their work, or within a relationship, or in an artistic outlet. There is some people who are in the sandwich generation and they're terribly stressed by the obligations of both their children and their elderly parents. There are other people for whom that connection, even when it's stressful, has a lot of meaning, a lot of purpose. And so there are any number of things that we can do to promote wellness. When you look at the people putting together the happiness course at UC Berkeley, what they talk about is sort of an appetite or a diet in the same way that we pick foods, even when we try to eat nutritiously, which also has an impact on well-being,
Dr. Wayne Martinsen:
But even when we try to eat nutritiously, there are certain foods that we prefer some things that taste good or that feel right to us. So there are some people who can't stand meditation. So don't torture yourself. Your well-being is not going to be found there, right? There are some people who really are more comfortable being alone, not connecting with people. There are people who physically can't exercise. So you look at sort of the smorgasbord of well-being options and you select those that are the best fit for who you are in the life that you lead.
Tim Unsinn:
You know you said something about exercise. And I think I'm going to credit myself with the walk to the car each day, and I'm going to count the minutes and I'm going to add that up. That should count. Right? Well, only
Dr. Wayne Martinsen:
If it's a brisk walk, Tim. It has to be fast enough so that you couldn't easily carry on a conversation.
Tim Unsinn:
Well, it is winter where we live about 10 months of the year. So it is a brisk walk, usually. You are listening to Mind your Mind. Our guest is Dr. Wayne Martinsen. And before we wrap up our conversation about wellness, there's always that last question I'm going to ask our guests. And that is what do you do personally, to Mind your Mind?
Dr. Wayne Martinsen:
Actually, I had some tragic occurrences a number of years ago with an unexpected death of one of my daughters. And it left me really needing to find a way to get past the hurt, the depression, the bitterness that came with that. And so to begin with, it's like, as anybody who's struggling should, I went and saw my doctor to get medication.
Dr. Wayne Martinsen:
I went and saw a psychologist to get therapy. I also over time, the hurt of that lingers for people who have lost a child. And it's like, you have to find a way to put a life back together again. And so with time, I have really doubled down on, I do brisk walks. I make my dog come with me. I really try to protect my sleep. I meditate every day. I eat a largely, it's not a religious thing, but I eat a largely fresh fruits and vegetable diet because it's better for me. I make an effort to connect multiple times per week by phone or by zoom with friends. So it's, it's something that I really work at on a day-to-day basis. And for me, it has made a huge difference. To the point that I've incorporated more and more of it in my practice as time has gone on over the last few years.
Tim Unsinn:
It seems that the biggest theme is what I'm hearing in wellness or what you're sharing with us about wellness is, you know, creating habits that are going to help your wellness. There's so much information today. There's so many opportunities. I really appreciate your time with us on this episode of Mind your Mind. I love podcasts. We can always push, pause, digest what we just heard. Rewind. Listen again, podcast are shareable. So again, thank you for your time. We appreciate it.
Dr. Wayne Martinsen:
Thank you, Tim.
Tim Unsinn:
Thank you for joining us for Mind Your Mind, a podcast presented by Dakota Family Services. You can't have health without behavioral health. Remember to mind your mind. For more information, links to additional resources, contact information, and much more go to Dakota, family services.org.
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Medication can affect people in many different ways. In this episode of Mind Your Mind, host Tim Unsinn and psychiatric nurse practitioner Amanda Daggett talk about genetic testing and its use in discerning how different individuals might react to various medications. Tim and Amanda also touch on some of the facts and myths surrounding genetic testing, including what testing can and can’t indicate and where the science is currently at.;
Understanding Anxiety
Anxiety is one of the most common mental health problems people face. However, there are many ways to manage and understand it. On this episode of Mind Your Mind, host Tim Unsinn and therapist Lucas Mitzel discuss what causes anxiety and how it can affect people’s day-to-day lives, as well as the difference between anxiety and fear and how to combat chronic anxiety with grounding techniques.;
The Power of Social Connections (Community Chat Series)
In this special Community Chat episode of Mind Your Mind, Psychologist Megan Spencer and Psychiatrist Wayne Martinsen discuss how loneliness and social isolation are increasing in our country, as well as what that means for individuals’ health in the long term. They also give advice on how to get yourself or your loved ones more connected with others, including how to connect both in-person and online.;
Shining Light in the Darkness with DBT (Community Chat Series)
Does it seem like your child is “stuck” in therapy, or engaging in dangerous behaviors like self-harm and suicidality? In this special Community Chat episode of Mind Your Mind, Psychologist Hannah Baczynski and therapist April Morris discuss Dialectical Behavior Therapy and its effectiveness in treating patients who have found traditional therapy unsuccessful. Learn about the 4 core skills of DBT and what makes DBT unique from other forms of therapeutic treatment.;
Does My Child Need Medication?
When our children are struggling with their mental health, it can be hard knowing how to help them. However, in addition to therapy, medication can be a viable and effective option for improving your child’s mental health. In this episode of Mind Your Mind, our host Tim Unsinn talks with psychiatric mental health nurse Amanda Daggett about how to know if your child needs medication, what the process is for a prescription, and how to tell if their medication is right for them.;
Depression in Children and Adolescents
Did you know that depression occurs in about 15% of children? In this episode of Mind Your Mind, our host Tim Unsinn talks with Psychiatrist Dr. Wayne Martinsen about depression in kids and adolescents, including signs of depression to look out for and how to know when to reach out to a care provider. They also touch on how to know whether your child’s sadness is caused by depression or other external factors and what you can do to try and prevent depression in your child.;
Recognizing Depression in Children & Adolescents (Community Chat Series)
It can be difficult knowing how to recognize and treat depression in children and adolescents. In this special community chat episode of Mind Your Mind, Psychologist Megan Spencer and Therapist April Morris discuss signs of depression to look out for, including both behavioral and physical signs that your child may be depressed. They also touch on the influence of environment, physical illnesses or diagnoses, and genetics on children’s mental health.;
How to Fit In While Staying True to Yourself
Humans are hardwired for social connection, but it can be difficult knowing where to fit in as unique individuals. In this episode of Mind Your Mind, host Tim Unsinn and therapist Christy Wilkie talk about the importance of using your strengths, interests, and relationships to figure out where you belong. They also touch on signs that you might not be staying true to yourself, as well as how to handle feelings of being left out.;
PTSD: Signs, Symptoms, & Treatment (Community Chat Series)
While often perceived as only relating to those who’ve experienced warfare, Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) can affect anyone. In this special Community Chat episode of Mind Your Mind, Psychologist Dr. Hannah Baczynski and therapist Lucas Mitzel explain what trauma is, how it affects each person differently, and when to seek treatment for trauma-related symptoms. They also discuss different treatment options for PTSD, touching on the pros and cons of each.;
Autism in Children & Adolescents (Community Chat Series)
Though autism is one of the most commonly discussed mental health diagnoses in the community, it is often one of the most misunderstood. In this special Community Chat episode of Mind Your Mind, therapists Lucas Mitzel and Falan Johnson discuss what autism is, how it appears in children and adolescents, and how it may look different between individuals. They also touch on how autism can show up differently in boys than in girls and offer intervention tips for parents and caregivers.;
Autism in Adults (Community Chat Series)
Autism is sometimes perceived as a disorder that only affects children and adolescents, but it is actually a lifelong diagnosis. In this special Community Chat episode of Mind Your Mind, psychologists Dr. Hannah Baczynski and Dr. Megan Spencer explore the symptoms and nuances of autism in adults, touching on the history of autism spectrum disorder, the research surrounding it, how autism commonly presents in adults, and more.;
Spirituality & Mental Health
Though spirituality is often associated with religion, it can mean much more than simply attending religious services or praying. In this episode of Mind Your Mind, host Tim Unsinn and psychiatrist Dr. Wayne Martinsen define spirituality and discuss its relevance in daily life, touching on ways people experience, express, and cultivate spirituality. They also talk about the link between spirituality, religion and meaning in life.;
Setting Healthy & Realistic Goals
Setting goals is easy. Working towards them is hard. In this episode of Mind Your Mind, host Tim Unsinn talks with Dakota Family Services therapist Christy Wilkie about how to set healthy, realistic goals, as well as the importance of managing your expectations and staying persistent. Whether you’re starting an exercise routine, writing a book, trying a new diet, or building your career, keep these tips in mind when setting your next big goal.;
Facing Your Fears
Fear is powerful. It can cause us to avoid problems, people, and even opportunities in our life. But it can also be overcome. In this episode of Mind Your Mind, host Tim Unsinn speaks with Falan Johnson, a therapist at Dakota Family Services, about the function of fear and how to face it. Learn where fear comes from, how to identify it, and how to calm down and build confidence when you’re feeling afraid.;
The Three R's: Regulate, Relate & Reason
In this episode of Mind Your Mind, our host Tim Unsinn talks with Dakota Family Services therapist Jessie Mertz about the “3 R’s”—Regulate, Relate, and Reason. They discuss what each term means, how they build upon each other, and how this approach can help you calm others who are experiencing distress.;
What is Schizophrenia?
Schizophrenia is a chronic, complex mental health disorder that affects around 1% of people in the United States. In this episode of Mind Your Mind, host Tim Unsinn and psychiatrist Dr. Wayne Martinsen discuss the symptoms and implications of schizophrenia, touching on its many effects on individual and family life. Learn about how schizophrenia is treated, how it affects physical health, when it tends to develop, and how it is perceived between cultures.;
How to Have a Conversation About Mental Health
Although the stigma surrounding mental health is gradually disappearing, it can still be tricky knowing how to talk about it. In this episode of Mind Your Mind, host Tim Unsinn and psychologist Megan Spencer explore how to have a conversation with someone about their mental health, including signs that you should talk to them, how to start the conversation, and some possible reactions to expect from the other person.;
The Benefits of Being Outside
Are you feeling cooped up indoors? Join host Tim Unsinn and therapist Lucas Mitzel in this episode of Mind Your Mind as they discuss the importance of getting outside on your mental health. Learn about the benefits of green and blue spaces, activities you can do while outside, and how being outside can help improve symptoms of different mental health diagnoses.;
Dealing With Burnout
In this episode of Mind Your Mind, Tim Unsinn talks with psychologist Dr. Hannah Baczynski about the signs of burnout, how to prevent it, and how to know if your burnout is related to general life stressors or a mental health disorder. They also talk about the difference between fatigue and burnout, as well as how to support yourself and alleviate burnout when you’re experiencing it.;
Living with Chronic Illness
Many of us know someone who has been diagnosed with a chronic illness, or have been diagnosed with one ourselves. In this episode of Mind Your Mind, host Tim Unsinn talks with therapist April Morris about how chronic illness can impact daily living and mental health, as well as how to seek support if you have been diagnosed with a chronic illness.;
Bipolar Disorder: Understanding the Highs and Lows
Although the term ‘bipolar’ is sometimes used as slang to describe someone who is moody or indecisive, true bipolar disorder is a complex and sometimes severe mental health disorder that affects the way a person thinks, feels, and behaves. In this episode of Mind Your Mind, host Tim Unsinn discusses bipolar disorder with nurse practitioner Amanda Daggett, touching on what the disorder is, what its symptoms look like, and how it can be treated.;
Social Media: Managing Emotions & Setting Boundaries
How much time do you spend each day looking at your phone? An hour or two? Multiple hours? In this episode of Mind Your Mind, host Tim Unsinn meets with therapist Christy Wilkie to discuss how social media use can impact our mental health, relationships, and behavior. Learn tips for monitoring your child’s internet use, as well as how to manage your own time spent on social media.;
Understanding OCD
While OCD is sometimes perceived as simply a desire to keep things neat and organized, it can actually have much more severe symptoms for those who experience it. In this episode of Mind Your Mind, host Tim Unsinn meets with psychologist Dr. Megan Spencer to talk about who Obsessive Compulsive Disorder affects, what its signs and symptoms are, and how to seek help if you or a loved one has been diagnosed with OCD.;
Breaking Bad Habits
Bad habits can be easy to start but sometimes very difficult to stop. In this episode of Mind Your Mind, host Tim Unsinn and therapist Falan Johnson talk about breaking bad habits, including where habits come from, how to know if a habit is bad, and steps you can take to stop it.;
Finding a Therapist
Are you looking for some help on your mental health journey? In this episode of Mind Your Mind, host Tim Unsinn and therapist Jessie Mertz talk about how to find a therapist, including what you should know when searching and what questions to ask when you meet a therapist for the first time. They also touch on what the letters after a therapist’s name mean, and how they apply to the type of services or treatment you might be looking for.;
Coping with Rejection
Whether it’s from asking someone on a date or applying for a job, we all experience rejection at some point in our lives. In this episode of Mind Your Mind, host Tim Unsinn talks with therapist April Morris about how to cope with rejection, including the common coping stages, the importance of acceptance, and how rejection can impact people differently.;
Borderline Personality Disorder
Like other personality disorders, borderline personality disorder is a commonly misunderstood and stigmatized mental illness. In this episode of Mind Your Mind, host Tim Unsinn talks with Lucas Mitzel, a therapist at Dakota Family Services, about what BPD is, how it affects someone’s behavior, and where to seek treatment if your child has been diagnosed with BPD.;
Psychological Assessments: What to Expect
Do you think you might be suffering from an undiagnosed mental disorder? If so, a psychological assessment might be able to help. In this episode of Mind Your Mind, psychologist Dr. Hannah Baczynski and host Tim Unsinn talk about what to expect from a psychological assessment, including what an assessment might include, what information you might receive from the psychologist, and what you should communicate with your psychologist before and after receiving an assessment.;
Supplements in Psychiatry
In this episode of Mind Your Mind, host Tim Unsinn and Amanda Daggett explore the topic of using supplements for mental health. In addition to talking about some of the most commonly used supplements like melatonin and St. John’s Wort, they also discuss the benefits, the risks, and the research surrounding various supplements.;
Seasonal Affective Disorder (Community Chat Series)
Feeling like you’ve got the winter blues? If you’re noticing symptoms of depression with the change of seasons, it may be a sign that you’re suffering from Seasonal Affective Disorder, or SAD. In this special Community Chat episode of Mind Your Mind, therapists Christy Wilkie and Lucas Mitzel discuss the common symptoms of Seasonal Affective Disorder, how it can affect other mental health disorders, and some useful tips, tricks, and resources for managing symptoms of SAD.;
Trying New Things With Confidence
Join Christy and Lucas, therapists at Dakota Family Services, as they share practical tips for building confidence when trying new things. From managing self-doubt to building resilience, this episode will empower you to approach new experiences with a positive mindset.;
Relationships are Hard
In this episode, Christy and Lucas explore why relationships can be so hard. Join them as they discuss the characteristics of both healthy and toxic relationships, talk about the difference between normal conflict and abuse, and help you discover your love languages so you and your partner can best express your love to each other.;
Is Everybody Anxious?
In this episode, Christy and Lucas explore anxiety. Join them as they discuss the signs and symptoms of an anxiety disorder, what you can do to decrease your anxiety, and how to best help loved ones struggling with anxiety.;
Is Everyone Feeling Sad
In this episode, Christy and Lucas explore depression. Join them as they discuss the signs and symptoms of Major Depressive Disorder, what you can do to help yourself feel better, and what you can do to help your loved ones. They will talk about coping strategies, therapy interventions, and ways to help you identify when your child might need extra help.;
Change is Hard
Change is inevitable. Join Christy and Lucas as they explore big and small changes and how they impact you. Learn why change can be so hard, even good change, and discover ways to manage it effectively.;
We Need to Talk About Suicide
In this episode of "Is It Just Me," Christy and Lucas discuss the very important topic of suicide. Listen to learn about risk factors, warning signs, and what you can do to help a loved one who is struggling. Remember, you are not alone. If you need immediate assistance, call 911. If you need to talk to someone, call the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline at 988.;
Do We Need to Get Outside?
Join Lucas and Christy as they explore the power of spending time outdoors on mental and emotional well-being. Discover practical tips, personal anecdotes, and expert insights on the benefits of getting outside and reconnecting with nature.;
Exploring ADHD
In this episode of "Is It Just Me?" Lucas and Christy discuss ADHD, shedding light on its prevalence and impact on daily life. Learn practical strategies for managing symptoms and understand why your friend or loved one with ADHD does the things they do.;
Internet Safety and Mental Health
In this episode of "Is It Just Me?", join our hosts Christy and Lucas as they delve into the complex relationship between the internet and mental health. With the digital age bringing information and social connections to our fingertips, it also presents unique challenges and opportunities for our safety and psychological well-being.;
Boosting Self-Esteem: From Marathons to Daily Triumphs
In this episode of "Is It Just Me?", Christy and Lucas discuss how common it is for people to see themselves differently from others. Using their own personal triumphs and challenges as examples, they outline the things that shape our self-esteem. Additionally, they share simple daily practices to help listeners recognize and celebrate their own personal victories. This episode is filled with tips and engaging stories aimed at encouraging listeners to undertake challenges that foster self-growth and personal confidence.;
Therapy Unveiled: What to Know Before You Go
In this episode of "Is It Just Me," Lucas and Christy talk about what it's like to begin therapy. Feeling apprehensive about starting therapy is normal, but surmountable. Together, Lucas and Christy unravel common myths about therapy and emphasize the role of therapy in disrupting negative life patterns and routines that are no longer serving you.;
Coping with the Back-to-School Blues
In the latest episode of “Is It Just Me?” Christy and Lucas tackle the transition from leisurely summer days to structured school schedules with warmth and wisdom. This episode is a must-listen for parents seeking guidance and strategies to help navigate the shift with confidence. Learn how to handle changes in routine, the importance of communication, and strategies to help the entire family adjust to and embrace the new normal. Listening to this episode can be your first step toward making back-to-school a season of growth and positive change for all.;
The Art of Overcoming Trauma
In this month’s episode of the "Is It Just Me?" podcast, Lucas Mitzel and Christy Wilkie, Dakota Family Services, dive into the complexities of trauma and its therapy. The episode sheds light on Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT) and the importance of creating a trauma narrative as a cornerstone of healing. The thoughtful discussions aim to educate listeners on the intricacies of trauma, the innovative methods used in therapy, and the role of caregivers in the recovery process. Through expert insights and compassionate storytelling, Lucas and Christy provide practical advice and real-world examples for individuals who have experienced trauma.;
Navigating Life Through Mindfulness
In this episode of “Is It Just Me?”, Lucas and Christy delve into the world of mindfulness and relaxation techniques. From body scans to mindfulness exercises, they provide a soothing experience to help you unwind and distress. Discover practical tips and advice on incorporating mindfulness into your daily routine and learn how to prioritize mental well-being in today's fast-paced world.;
Mindfulness: Body Scan
In this special additional episode of “Is It Just Me” join therapist Lucas Mitzel as he gives listeners a transformative journey within their own body and mind. In this episode, Lucas guides listeners through a soothing body scan to promote calm, mindfulness, and inner peace. This episode offers a unique mixdown of gentle narration, and relaxation techniques, leaving you feeling refreshed, rejuvenated, and more connected to yourself.;